What if you could finally enjoy the success you’ve worked so hard for?
What if you could say no to a client request and not feel that familiar pit in your stomach?
What if you could shut your laptop at 3pm on a Tuesday and just… feel free?
That’s what The Identity Edit is here to help you do.
Here’s the truth: you’ve built something incredible. Multiple five-figure months. Systems that actually work. Expertise people pay you for. You know you’re good at what you do.
And yet…
Every time you think about leveling up, your chest tightens.
Every time you need to hold a boundary, that pit in your stomach shows up.
Every time you step into bigger visibility, your throat catches.
Every time a client pays you, you wonder if you’re really worth it.
It's not that you don't want more…. it's that part of you still doesn't feel safe having it.
Here’s what’s really happening: even though you chose this life, part of you is still resisting it and it shows up as stress, doubt, and tension every time you try to relax.
You already did the brave thing…
You walked away from the 9–5, the mortgage pressure, and the endless questions about settling down. You built a business your way, and it’s working.
On paper, it’s everything you wanted.
But underneath it…
You rewrite the price increase email five times and never hit send.
A dream opportunity lands and instead of excitement, anxiety hits.
You book that month-long retreat in Bali but you bring your laptop along, just in case.
You hit a huge milestone and your brain immediately whispers, “don’t get too comfortable.”
You want to show up online fully as yourself, but you tone it down, just enough.
You tell people your success was timing or luck, instead of saying, “I built this.”
“Who are you to charge €20K for a program? People will think you’re out of your mind.”
“Don’t make a scene. What will the people think if you flaunt that success?”
“Money changes people. Don’t let it go to your head, you don’t want people talking.”
“Be careful. Nobody likes a show-off.”
“Don’t get too comfortable. Success never lasts, remember what happened to your cousin when she tried something different?”
“You’re lucky to have this. Don’t ask for more. Don’t rock the boat.”
Here’s what no one tells you:
The old rules you grew up with don’t just disappear. They linger, whispering things like:
All of this, the wins, the clients, the proof, none of it automatically make your system feel safe.
It’s still wired to doubt, hold back, and tense up. That’s why saying yes to bigger opportunities can feel shaky. That’s why freedom sometimes feels heavier than it should.
You don’t need another funnel or strategy session.
You need to feel safe in the life you’ve already created.
Imagine this instead…
➝ That dream collaboration lands in your inbox and you actually feel excited. No tension, no second-guessing. You reply with confidence, fully owning your worth.
➝A client pushes back on your boundary, and instead of that familiar panic, you hold your ground calmly and clearly.
➝ You step into high-visibility opportunities like panels, podcasts, or features, and instead of shrinking, you feel solid, grounded, and ready.
➝ You hit send on your €20K program price, then close your laptop and spend the afternoon in a café in Lisbon, actually relaxed.
➝ You celebrate your biggest month yet and let yourself really feel proud. No guilt. No scanning for what’s next.
➝ You work 20–25 hours a week from your Airbnb in Portugal, then switch off completely for a long weekend exploring. No guilt. No “shoulds.”
➝ And when someone asks how you built your success, you say it easily: “I’m really good at what I do.”
This is what happens when your system finally feels safe.
When those old whispers like “Who are you to charge that much?” or “Don’t get too comfortable” lose their grip.
Most programs teach you what to do…
I help you feel safe enough to actually do it.
You don't need another strategy, more discipline, or to work any harder. What you really need is subconscious transformation and nervous system regulation.
Because underneath it all, your system is still running scripts like:
Expansion is risky even when the opportunity is right.
Being more visible doesn't feel safe, even when you know your work matters.
Success feels temporary, so you don't let yourself relax.
Be grateful for what you have, don't ask for more.
This is where Hypnotherapy, RTT, and EMDR-informed somatic reprocessing come in.
We work at the subconscious level to rewire the beliefs and patterns that have been running the show. We help your nervous system reprocess stuck experiences so your body can finally recognise that expansion and success are safe.
The automatic reactions, the familiar doubts, the thought patterns that show up every time you try to grow - they start to shift.
✗ Second-guessing every time you go to raise your prices
✗ Holding back when visibility gets bigger
✗ Worrying what others will think when you own your success
✗ Believing freedom and ease are “too good to last”
We rewire those patterns so they no longer run the show. The chest tightness, the pit in your stomach, the restless nights, they dissolve.
Instead, you step into your next level with clarity, confidence, and safety.
Patterns like:
The Identity Edit is a 1:1 container where we clear the subconscious patterns and nervous-system responses that make expansion feel overwhelming, so you can finally feel safe expanding your visibility, charging what you're worth, and enjoying the freedom your business was built to give you.
The Identity Edit
This is not more mindset work.
This is identity-level transformation through Hypnotherapy, RTT, EMDR-informed somatic reprocessing and coaching, so you can..
✅Feel safe saying yes to bigger, more visible opportunities
✅ Raise your prices and actually hold them with confidence
✅ Detach your worth from client feedback, launch numbers, or external validation
✅ Take real time off without secretly checking Slack or emails
✅ Own your success without downplaying it or waiting for it to fall apart
What People Are Saying..
What People Are Saying..
What’s Included
Private 1:1 Coaching Container (3, 6, or 12 Months)
Choose the timeline that matches the depth of transformation you're ready for.
Transformation Sessions
Three sessions in month one, followed by two sessions per month in months two and three.
Personalised Hypnotherapy Audios After Each Session
Tailored recordings to deepen subconscious shifts between calls.
Slack Voice + Message Support Between Sessions
Real-time support when breakthroughs happen, questions arise, or you need coaching in the moment.
This isn’t about mindset hacks or forcing discipline.
This is nervous-system aware, subconscious-led coaching that gets to the core of what’s holding you back and rewires it.
We use Hypnotherapy, RTT, and EMDR-informed somatic reprocessing to:
✓ Identify the root cause of the block
✓ Reprocess what's been stuck in your system
✓Rewire old patterns and beliefs
✓ Build new neural pathways for lasting change
No more band-aid fixes. No more pushing through resistance. This is the deep work that creates sustainable, grounded success, the kind that feels safe to hold.
Why This Method Works
This Is For You If..
You’ve created something incredible, but actually owning that success still feels uncomfortable.
You’re hitting big months, but it feels like you’re working harder than you should have to.
A huge opportunity comes your way and instead of feeling excited, your stomach sinks.
You know you’re amazing at what you do, but you still hold back from claiming it publicly.
You built your business for freedom, but still feel guilty closing your laptop or taking time off.
You already have:
A business model and systems that genuinely support you.
The skills and expertise to create real transformation.
Consistent five-figure months that reflect the impact and results you deliver.
A vision for freedom, impact, and a life that feels good.
What you need:
Subconscious shifts that make expansion feels safe instead of scary.
The internal permission to fully own your expertise and charge accordingly
Root-cause reprocessing and rewiring so you can finally enjoy what you’ve built and step into more with ease
Investment
Popular
3-Month Container
€3,500
or
3 payments of €1,167
6 and 12 Month Container
Pricing available upon request for clients ready to go all in.
Hi I’m Aoife..
My journey from beauty therapist to Emirates cabin crew, to building and running a skin clinic, to this work wasn't random. It was all preparation for what I do now.
At 29, I discovered what was actually keeping me small: subconscious programming silently directing my life. Through training in hypnotherapy, RTT, and EMDR-informed somatic reprocessing, along with my own personal growth work, I discovered that real transformation doesn't happen at the surface level. It happens when you shift what's running beneath it.
Now, I work with ambitious women who are ready to release what's been holding them back. I've watched women dim their own brilliance because of fear, fear of judgment, fear of being too much, fear of not being enough. And I've also seen what happens when those blocks dissolve. Confidence shows up. Visibility feels natural. Success stops feeling heavy.
When you get to the root, when you shift that subconscious programming, the hesitation lifts and that sinking feeling in your stomach dissolves. The opportunities you actually want become the ones you feel ready to say yes to.
You already hold the power. I'm here to help you use it.
At the End of Your 3 Months
We’ll check in on:
What’s shifted? →
What beliefs have changed, how you’re showing up differently, and what growth you’ve embodied.
What’s ready now? →
The new opportunities or areas where you’re ready to expand further.
What do you want to hold next? →
Whether it’s more visibility, more impact, or more freedom, we’ll map how to support your continued growth.
FAQs
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Not exactly. This isn’t about launches or funnels. This is the inner work behind it all. It’s for the woman who’s already invested in external strategies but knows her next level isn’t about doing more, it’s about showing up differently, leading differently. Together, we reprocess what’s been holding you back and rewire your subconscious so you can step into more confidence, visibility, and ease
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Therapy often explores the past for emotional regulation and mental health. This work also goes to the past, but for a different reason: to uncover the root cause of the beliefs and fears that are still running the show. With RTT, hypnotherapy, and EMDR-informed somatic reprocessing, we help your nervous system reprocess what's been stuck and rewire the patterns that have been running the show. You'll heal, yes, but you'll also expand. We're not just processing the past, we're building the future version of you who leads and creates with confidence.
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Absolutely. Most of my clients come to me after years of personal development. They’ve done the affirmations and journaling, they’ve worked with coaches but something still hasn’t landed. That’s because subconscious work goes far deeper than what you can access consciously. This is where the shift sticks.
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You’ll get powerful results in 3 months, this container is designed for momentum. But deep work reveals new layers. Clearing one block often brings clarity to the next. At the end of our time, we’ll check in: what’s shifted, what’s possible now, what’s ready to be held. You’ll have the option to continue month-to-month or step into a longer container if it’s aligned.
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Yes. You’ll have access to me via Slack for voice and text support between sessions. Because transformation doesn’t just happen during the calls, it deepens in the moments when life moves fast, insights land, or your next level asks to be met.
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Yes. After each session, you’ll receive a personalized hypnotherapy recording to deepen and integrate the shifts we create together.
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If you feel something resonate, that’s your sign. You don’t need it all figured out. You just need to feel ready to go deeper than surface-level mindset work. If you’re feeling called, complete the application and I’ll personally review it. If it’s a fit, we’ll move forward together.